There is probably nothing as powerful as having to go through a painful break up. Break ups have that way of making us reassess our selves and reevaluate the way we see life. The experience of going through a break up can really stir anyone and make even the toughest jocks tear up.

Immediately after a break up, people will be giving you their solicited or unsolicited advice and most of them will include the motherhood statements of “it’s just not meant to be” or “move on” but all these lines won’t do anyone good.

But these often go through deaf ears because you only want to get your ex girlfriend back.

When it comes to attempting a reconciliation, there is no tried and tested method of doing so.

But because women are generally more receptive to the idea of getting back together because of the way that they look at relationships, your goal may not be that far ahead.

It is very normal for someone to keep a respectful distance from an ex right after a break up. Honestly, would you like to call the person who showed you the door?

There’s that awkwardness that becomes apparent right after a break up and even if you want to call your ex, you’re probably concerned with being labeled as desperate.

But if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, you must be the first one to reach out.

With the technology that we have now, sending friendly text messages is enough to make her warm up to you again. I am not suggesting sending her poems but casual messages are enough to keep you in her radar.

One other important thing is to always remember special dates. Whether it is Christmas or her birthday, always make sure that you send her a greeting card or a small present.

Women can never resist being remembered. They have that innate desire to hold a special place in any man’s heart.

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